The good news is is that if you HAVE to do this, doing a joint party in Atlantic City doesn’t have to be that bad. That’s because AC is big enough where you can meet up for a little bit and party together, but then go your own way as the bachelor party and you won’t have to intersect with the bachelorette party. Also, because Atlantic City is small enough the bride won’t get mad that the bachelor party went too far. You can be one casino away (or even in different clubs within the same casino) and it will be like you’re a world away.
That’s right – AC is big enough to have a good party all to yourselves, yet small enough where you can keep the bride happy about her stupid idea to have a joint party. If you have to stay within the same one casino, try the Borgata and take the guys to Mur Mur while she’s in Mixx, if you can go different places, keep the guys at the Borgata still (and own the whole place) while she’s getting her feet wet at the Harrah’s Pool.
No matter what, make sure to give the groom a lot of crap for having a dual party.
Mike – Atlantic City Bachelor Party